Philosophy # 2

I always try to create a balance between Personal life and Professional life.

Pros:

People in professional life cannot blackmail me emotionally for their professional outcome.

Cons:

Every colleague in my company assumes i am too strict to my (or the colleague's) life, and they cannot find any space in it. So, there isn’t any scope for me to have some personal relation with my colleague. The worst part is, people who are less professional will start making benefit of it.

Philosophy # 1

There are few things in life for which one should wait.

1. To pick up the child fallen in your way.
2. Roll call: Especially when caller starts alphabetically from A and your name is “vinod”.
3. Opportunity to prove himself/herself.
4. Aged enough for marriage: (18 for female and 21 for male)
5. To see the face of his/her newborn baby. (9 month in ideal case).

For rest of the thing, one can be impatient like me.

Once is enough

There was an incident 10 years back if my memory is not wrong.
I was in Ranchi at that time doing graduation there. One day I went to the local market near my residence. There was a small but famous sweet shop "Ojha Sweets". They used to sell "Samosa" as well in the evening. I went to that shop to have one “Samosa”. I ordered one and was waiting for the fresh one that are in frying state. Some more people are at the same shop eating what they have ordered. I was looking around few street children. They hardly have enough clothes on their body. They are playing with couple of street dogs, just like they are their friends.
Suddenly I heard a voice, “Sir, Samosa”; I went near to the shop guy and took my “Samosa”. The moment I turned back, I was about to cry with the scene I saw.
The street children were almost fighting with the dogs for the “Jootha patta katori”, which somebody might have thrown out. I was standing motionless, and was not able to think what to do. I didn’t know how to react. I just handed over my Samosa to one of the street children and left the place.

*Jotha : food that is considered polluted, usually because it has come in contact with somebody's saliva.
**Patta Katori : a small container made with leaf, which are used in small shops.

I am poised, are you ?

Now i feel that i am poised, ready to think of something new, something better and something for myself. "i say what i mean , i do what i say."
But are you game enough. As far as innovation is concerned, you need a mind in control (a poised mind) or a kind heart. Thinking from mind make you noble but thinking from heart can make you happy. So, its you to decide afterall its your life.
Then decide are you game enough for that. Are you poised?

Who told you to make everyone happy?

I never thought that something like this will happen in my life, but thats the truth. Maybe its due to my nature or due to the education i recieved from my parents. I always tried not to hurt anybody. Every moment of my life becomes happier. Well said "The man who is easily accessible, valued less". The "Be happy" attitude was good for my health but it starts affecting my position, my value, my esteem, my admiration. I don't know how to play game, how to cheat people. Everytime i got cheated by anyone, i always realize it can be avoided. But again, as per my nature i forgot and do the same stuff without putting any mind in that. I don't know, why i always try to make everybody happy? Why i always try to dilute the tensed environment? It becomes almost difficult to describe others that i can also have problems. I also want to feel sad, just for the change of mood. I also want to cry and need to be sympathized. It becomes impossible for me to explain these feelings to anybody. I starts doing self-analysis. I want to go to the root cause of, why i have created this type of environment which becomes suffocative for me? After much soul-searching, i got the reason, it was the thought that comes in my mind "not to hurt anybody", was the main culprit. There are millions of people we meet in this world. Who told you to make everyone happy?

Kind heart has large radius

Sometime, you assume that the face depicts personality.
At least when you have few information about the person in front of you. In this case you are forced to. And, after few days you feel cheated.
Do you think your assumption was wrong? if yes, I don't think you have any other option at that time. Who do you think is responsible?